Switching Gears Perspective #3: Eternia


 Spotify has changed my life.

I have discovered so many new and inspiring artists through the popular music-streaming app.

Perhaps more importantly, I can curate a mood. I create playlists with specific mood objectives in mind. Playlists to work out to, to unwind with, to reminisce over the good ‘ol days, to wake me up and get me going in the morning, to crawl into my innermost feelings, to connect with the Creator… the possibilities are endless! Which is why my playlists keep growing.

One of my playlists I’ve named: “Makes Me Wanna Spit.”  If you’re a rapper, as I am, you’ll know exactly what I’m talking about. This Hip Hop playlist is high velocity lyrical verboseness. The beats are banging, the lyrics are intelligent, the flows are complex, and the BPMs are well over 95. In layman’s terms: if Rocky needed motivational music to run up those steps, this playlist would be it!

I use this playlist sparingly and intentionally. The “Makes Me Wanna Spit” playlist is a tool I use, in a kit of many, to cultivate my creative garden. The seeds are creative ideas planted inside of me, as yet unnamed and unformed.  I use this particular tool when I want to get into the songwriting zone, when I wish to loosen the words stuck below the surface and encourage them to take root and burst through the soil.

My playlist is one of many tactics I’ve developed over time to nurture my creativity.  The methods are tailor-made for me, so they probably wouldn’t work for someone else. However, over time I do think I’ve stumbled across some over-arching principles of cultivating creativity that can apply across the board of creative personality, genre and medium.

photo credit: Silk Kaya


“Be still, and know…” – Psalm 46:10a

There’s something beautiful about an uncluttered mind. It’s where creativity is born and problems are solved. But in order to get to this place of stillness, the mind needs some tidying… or spring-cleaning depending on how long it’s been. We need to clean out our mind’s junk piles – yes that includes the endless to-do lists we ruminate about – in order to create space for other ideas to take root and grow. Let’s call this weeding the garden.

Your space-making process will look different than mine. But usually it involves slowing down, being present, and engaging in a low-stimulation activity that is your version of meditation. This could be working out, running, cycling or hiking. It could be a long soak in a hot tub, or a luxurious afternoon nap, or lying on sand near the ocean, or on the grass in your local urban park, looking up at the trees framing the sky. Whatever method you choose, it should be a de-stimulating activity that allows you to slow down and pause. Because interacting with others is inherently stimulating, it will most likely require alone time.

Many people say they don’t have time for this, while laughing at the thought. That’s a sign that going, doing and checking off “to do” lists is the kryptonite to their super powers.  Most of these folks may be trying to say they don’t know how to do this.  Cultivating space requires discipline and intentionality. It means scheduling it in your calendar and then when a scheduling conflict arises learning to say, “I have a pre-existing commitment.” If you were about to run a marathon, you would schedule time in your calendar to train for it. If you didn’t plan for that time to train in advance, and then got too busy and didn’t train at all, the marathon would be a disaster… or more likely you would drop out of it at the last minute. Cultivating space is a discipline that your creative self requires to flourish. You are “doing” something.  You are tidying your mind. You are weeding the garden in order to make space for beautiful plants to grow.

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photo credit: Silk Kaya


“Curiosity about life in all of its aspects, I think, is still the secret of great creative people” – Leo Burnett

Once we have weeded our creative garden, it’s time for nutrients, water, and sunlight!  This is the fun part. Imagine you’re an ambassador of a beautiful country, and your job is to show foreigners the cultural beauty of this place. It’s food, music, visual art, dance, fashion, authors, poets, architecture, nature, people… you can’t wait for others to experience all the aspects of your homeland that make it a place you’re proud of.  Well, we are ambassadors for our creative selves! Our ideas and projects don’t develop in a vacuum. The water, sunlight and nutrients they require to grow can be found – in part – through our curiosity. It’s easiest to distill this down to senses: what smells do you love? What tastes? What is music to your ears? What is a feast for your eyes? What makes your body feel free? What brings joy to your heart? And how will you know what the answer is to any of these questions without seeing, tasting, touching, smelling, hearing and experiencing a lot of different things?! The answer holds powerful tools you can use to inspire, develop and grow your own creativity.  Curiosity begets creativity.

I can only explain this phenomenon practically. Have you ever been to a concert that makes your spirit soar? These concerts are the kind that makes me want to make music. Or have you ever had such a stimulating and inspiring conversation with a friend that you leave the conversation with more energy than you had going in? These conversations are the kind that develops my ideas. You ever look at a stunning scenic landscape in front of you, and out of nowhere you’re moved to tears? These are tears that inspire poems, or a painting. These are the kind of sensory experiences I’m encouraging you to cultivate.

There are more subtle versions: reading a compelling book on a topic you know very little about. Playing with children and listening to their conversations with each other. Watching the birds and flowers closely on a walk. Keeping an eye open on public transit for acts of kindness that transpire between strangers. Striking up a conversation with a stranger! The list of new sensory experiences to explore is endless, quite literally.

Cultivating your curiosity requires being present, which is why the first step of cultivating space and slowing down is so foundational. This step also requires stepping outside of your comfort zone and trying new experiences. The beautiful sunset may have less of an effect on you if see it every night from your bedroom window. Any exciting sensory experience can be dulled with repetition; it should feel fresh and brand new, not predictable or dull. If you normally go to the ballet, try going to a local salsa, merengue and bachata night! And, like I mentioned with my “Makes Me Wanna Spit” playlist, it’s important to employ this tactic in moderation. Just like too much water or sun can kill a plant, overdosing on any good thing can reverse its’ effect and dull its’ impact.


“I’m not afraid of storms, for I’m learning how to sail my ship.” – Louisa May Alcott

Our little fledging plants in our creative garden have now been protected from weeds, and nourished with nutrients, water and sunlight… but what about their roots?  What is a strong spirit? How do we develop it?

I believe our spiritual life is intrinsically and holistically tied to every other aspect of our physical, emotional and mental well being, just as the inner core of the earth is just as much a necessary part of its’ whole as the outer crust, terrain, and ozone layers.

How we pursue and practice our spirituality is very personal, however I believe it’s important to fervently pursue and practice this discipline most of all… especially as creatives! Creativity is not born of thin air. We didn’t plant the seeds in the soil, we can tend to them, but they were already there. Who or what planted them? And to what do we owe this great honour and responsibility of tending to them and watching them come to fruition? We can’t give all the credit to ourselves; it’s not ours to give.

The most impactful creative works transcend time, race, class, language, sexuality and religion. There is something ethereal, mysterious and supernatural about it all.  And – in many cases – the most powerful creative works are born of hardship.  It is through hardship that we cultivate fortitude of spirit that translates in our creative works and ultimately blesses others. From this perspective, we must approach less than ideal circumstances – from the merely uncomfortable to the terribly tragic – from a position of discernment and expectancy. Plants strengthen and learn to bend, not break, when they weather the storms. These trials are the necessary gems required to cultivate our soul, and as a by-product our creative works, if we allow it.

How do we ‘allow’ it? First and foremost, if we don’t have a spiritual practice to begin with, when storms hit we will have no tools to weather it and no anchor. Also, we can allow it by feeling and expressing honestly through the anguish, not suppressing. By being transparent and inviting others to bear the burden with us, even when it takes swallowing pride. Emotional pain is often an indication of an illusion dying, so maybe – through our discomfort – we can ask ourselves what illusion we need to let go of, because it no longer serves us. And just like the plants in a garden never think to ask, “why is it storming? I don’t deserve this”  (because it would be silly to think a plant has a say in weather cycles, and that storms exist to punish/reward plant life)… neither should we.  There is humility and awe imbued in the realization we control far less than we think we do, and that we are not the central character in life’s narrative. Tragedies and trials highlight this reality. Seeking a deeper spiritual awareness and pursuing a spiritual discipline can bring us to the Source of Life, and a peace that passes understanding when we surrender our control to this Source… even our creative control!

Space, stillness, curiosity of the senses, and a firm spiritual foundation: these principles rely on each other.  Cultivating one without the other would be like building a chair with three legs. Likely, I’ve missed other principles; this is by no means an exhaustive list but simply a starting point.  These are principles that have been really effective in cultivating creativity on my journey, and the journeys of others I admire. I look forward to hearing how these principles work for you, or what other principles you employ.   It’s the customization that makes it exciting.  I don’t believe in a one-size-fits-all approach to anything, and certainly not our creativity. Ultimately, based on your own intimate knowledge of self, you get to fill-in-the-blanks and curate your own personalized “Rocky-Running-Up-The-Steps” playlist of victory!

SILK KAYA is a curator of ideas and words. In the past twenty-five years she has done this primarily through the medium of music, as the 2x Juno-Nominated and Polaris Long-listed Hip Hop Artist Eternia.  However, she was performing and writing poems, essays and stories long before she penned her first rap verse.  Entering her fourth decade in this creative life, Silk Kaya is looking forward to challenging herself by pursuing new and unfamiliar pathways in music and media for her ideas and words. You can find her at TheRealEternia.com.


photo credit: Silk Kaya


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